Thriving with AI
My @Work page is live: one frontier polished, two honest sketches. Plus rivers and lakes, a knowledge base built over Burning Man weekend, and a family reunion search run by agents.
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A new family fun quest, a real budget my wife and I committed to together, a Thriving Wage calculator, and my first agent in the cloud.
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A September-through-December forecast now runs from the expected-transaction lines and matched my hand-built rollup to the cent. My wife and I committed our first monthly budget against it, with a written reason for every line we chose to change.
Open in the Quest Hub →Family Fun
Weekly, monthly, and quarterly review loops now separate quick picks from long-lead planning, and a cloud successor built on Vercel's Eve framework ran its first safe preview: 308 future events narrowed to 81 candidates without touching the live calendar.
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A few intense weeks, progress on money and cloud agents, and a useful new frame for building with AI.
Keep reading →AI @HomeA receipt, not always a victory
Reached 99% transaction categorization, actioned every July review item, and modeled fourteen expected payments that roll into a transaction-level family forecast.
Open the receipt →Proactive Family Finances
The ledger reached 99% categorization, July's review corrections landed, and fourteen expected-transaction lines turned known recurring, periodic, and one-off costs into a forecast I can inspect from the total down to the individual payment.
Open in the Quest Hub →AI @Work
What AI changed about trust in B2B SaaS go-to-market - and what it didn't.
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Proactive Family Finances is live, and the email quest reached its first inbox zero.
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A standards-based CalDAV calendar put high-signal family outings and date-night options on my phone without turning them into commitments. The technical side quest worked; the real test is whether the options lead to more time together.
Open in the Quest Hub →Agent-Native Email
On a brand-new inbox. With almost no email. I classified and actioned 49 messages! It only took 14 hours and 8 minutes of active work, spread across 4 days, 21 hours, and 33 minutes, with 67 merged PRs. Oy.
Open in the Quest Hub →Agent-Native Email
The first four-email Slack brief got two action classifications right. Both the attention and FYI items should have been archived with no action, so the original brief remains unchanged and the 50% result becomes the baseline for calibration.
Open in the Quest Hub →Agent-Native Email
Roundcube is live on the self-hosted mailbox, so the daily brief can link back to the copy that actually arrived on the server - from a phone or any browser.
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A serious pup scare, an unexpected staycation, and the agent-native email quest that brought me back to writing.
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The July audit found a substantial build: 5,862 synthesized transactions and 160 categorization rules, but no trustworthy operating loop. A failed derived-layer repair proved that fixes must live in durable rules.
Open in the Quest Hub →AI @HomeA receipt, not always a victory
OpenAI's Sol sent my launch email before it was fully complete, making this the most ironic agent workflow possible. The achievement is not the mistake; it's turning the mistake into a traceable system improvement.
Open the receipt →Agent-Native Email
Thriving with AI launched from the new agent-native stack - and OpenAI's Sol sent the launch email before it was fully complete. The most ironic agent workflow possible is now becoming a stricter dual-inbox test, explicit post-test approval gate, and permanent incident trail.
Open in the Quest Hub →AI @Home
My first Thriving quest is to increase my capacity for connection with agent-native email.
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The quest hub went public - this page, the receipts, the real token costs, all of it. Two days after the mail server was born, the story of building it became the launch surface itself.
Open in the Quest Hub →Agent-Native Email
The hosting provider refused to open direct outbound - so the relay path designed on day one took over. Messages queued for 23 hours flushed in seconds, and the whole stack scored 10/10 on mail-tester. The foundation workstream is complete.
Open in the Quest Hub →Agent-Native Email
The launch surface went from route inventory to four reviewed page redesigns in one day - drafted as design cards, edited in a shared design pane, shipped as pull requests. 30 routes went dark; 13 pages remain, crawl-audited clean.
Open in the Quest Hub →Agent-Native Email
My thrivinghenry.com mailbox now receives on hardware I control: MX cutover done, first real message delivered in under a second, and an EA agent triaging at 100% on its golden-set eval.
Open in the Quest Hub →Agent-Native Email
Design spec approved before any building: a self-hosted OpenBSD mail server, a newsletter relaunch on owned rails, this quest hub, and a five-seat cast of agents - with success criteria declared up front.
Open in the Quest Hub →Proactive Family Finances
Financial freedom, resilience, lifestyle boundaries, and redesign triggers were written down, then translated into goal tiers, income assumptions, budget thresholds, and allocation rules.
Open in the Quest Hub →Proactive Family Finances
Statements, Plaid, and Tiller became independent raw inputs feeding one synthesized ledger. Vendors could now be replaced without surrendering the family record or its provenance.
Open in the Quest Hub →Proactive Family Finances
Goals, watched spending, live metrics, balance snapshots, and commitments came together in one review surface. The breakthrough was treating family finance as a recurring decision ritual, not another dashboard.
Open in the Quest Hub →The Journey
Five years ago I started writing about thriving without AI. The tools changed. The question didn't. My inaugural essay relaunching my website and newsletter to focus on Thriving with AI.
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The long game: a Unified Theory of Thriving to understand and a Global Institute for Thriving to study and practice.
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